9 Signs Your Ex Wants You Back
Published: 24/01/2010 by Dan K. Jenkins
Initially, after your breakup, all you are able to think of is that you miss your ex, and that it is painful to be solitary again.
You can't say when, or if, you will ever be with your ex once more. The doubt sweeps over you.
But then time passes by, and you do, in the end, discover yourself in spots where you and your ex are close to one another. Maybe you work together, or you attend the same classes, or frequent the same bars. Or perhaps you share many of the same friends, and you can't avoid running into each other from time to time.
Or, you may find that you communicate through e-mail, or speak on the telephone occasionally, while winding up unfinished business from your relationship.
Sooner or later you learn to live with the idea that you're not in a relationship with your former partner any longer. You start to understand that your former partner is your "ex," and no longer your "current." Perhaps you even begin to think of getting back together.
If that's the case, and you are flirting with the idea of winning back your ex, then you need to stay aware of the signs your ex exhibits whenever you're with each other.
Following is a list of signals that indicate your ex wants you back. Everything listed here is applicable to both males and females, so switch "he" to "she" as appropriate to get the scenario to be meaningful for your personal situation.
1. He says his folks miss you, or the cat, or the kids. This is his subconscious method of telling you he misses you, too.
2. He asks your opinion prior to deciding something important, or asks for your input, or your advice.
3. Your friends say he was inquiring about you.
4. He calls you by your old pet name, or other sweet names like "baby" or "sweetie," when he talks to you.
5. He continues to do small favors for you, like purchasing your favorite ice cream when he's at the only shop that carries it.
6. He apologizes for his flaws, and for stupid mistakes he made while you were with each other.
7. He touches you physically whenever you are with each other.
8. You keep on "accidentally" bumping into him, often enough that it's obvious he is being where you will be, intentionally.
9. Whenever you talk on the telephone, you're the person who terminates the call.
Seldom does anybody's ex display all of the signs listed above. But if your ex gives off more than a couple of these signals, then that's encouraging! There's a good chance your ex wants you back!
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